with the high heels on // tmi tuesday #1
Hooray! This is the first week I’ve had the patience to sit down on a Tuesday and answer the TMI Tuesday questions! This week all the questions are ones that have been asked before, so obviously they are all new to me! (And why there’s a picture from Casablanca. Quiet it made sense in my head.)
1. Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening?
Yes, on multiple occasions. Sometimes it was with someone I was sleeping with and we just didn’t do anything. More often it was with someone I wanted to be having sex with and obviously wasn’t. I could explain more, but… Ah, well. I’d like to think that’s all in the past.
As a side note: One of my favorite things to experience is waking up with someone. It’s one of the most incredible feelings in the world.
2. When it comes to swinging or partner swapping, which would excite you more, watching or being watched?
Watching. I think. I’m already a bit of a voyeur (watching my partner is such a turn on) that watching my partner with someone else would be really exciting. Plus then afterward I could be all possessive and jealous and prove why I’m better.
3. Would you vote for a candidate caught in a sex scandal?
I really think it’s stupid that people wouldn’t. I understand it, I just don’t think a sex scandal has any bearing on their ability to perform the political, representative function of their office. Barring really bad sex scandals, like something involving minors, rape, or human trafficking, I don’t think a sex scandal is that big a deal, politically-speaking.
4. Do you masturbate to porn, and if so, what is your favorite genre?
No ): I have previously expressed a desire to watch porn with my partner as foreplay/a precursor to sex, but I don’t masturbate to it. Nor do I have the time to watch enough of it to have an idea about what genre I would like.
5. What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them?
Ooooo, this is hard. (It shouldn’t be, I’ve been on what I think people would consider to meet the minimum requirements of dates, and they’ve been bad.) 1) Try too hard to have sex with me. I hate that. When I am physically shying away from you, you should not keep pushing into my personal space. Just because I’m open about my sexuality does not give you license to lay claim to it. 2) Objectify me in weird ways. There’s a difference between telling me I’m pretty or sexy and saying what a hot Asian girl I am. The former is flattery and I will blush and act like a 15 year old. The latter will make me raise my eyebrows and stare at you in what I can only hope is a humorless glare. 3) Not be interesting. If you don’t make me laugh, and if we don’t have some kind of connection where I’m smiling and only feel awkward because I have that fluttery, butterflies-in-my-stomach-feeling because I want you to like me too, then you’re doing it wrong.
Is that 3 things? I need to go on more dates. More bad dates.
Bonus: Is your sex drive in park, neutral or over-drive. Explain.
Park. I go through phases depending on where I am in life. I am definitely not being driven by sex right now. Not that I don’t have any sexual desires (my partner can get me going pretty easily!), but I’m definitely not prioritizing or making them a central concern of my life. Maybe you’d consider that neutral? I’m not sure.
You, too, can play along! Just visit the TMI Tuesday blog, check out the week’s post/questions, and follow the instructions on the post! Have fun!